They were both pre occupied with their work and each other and did not have the ability to attune to their own emotional needs not to mention mine.
This meant, I never had a healthy relationship model to refer to. I didn’t know how to love or value myself or to be a part of a healthy coupling. I had never witnessed it growing up. I thought being in love meant suffering, co dependency and conflict, and that’s exactly what I experienced for many years until I was able to let go of my childhood story.
Today, I understand that deep and lasting love requires a woman to Truly love and value herself. To have emotional independence and things in her life that bring her true happiness and keep her centred.
She should have A level of emotional intelligence into herself and her feelings to correctly interpret her triggers and her unconscious she sabotages and resists love.